• There are a few mistakes I wish I'd avoided before and during my family's trip to South Korea.
• I wish I had planned more hikes, purchased a transit card sooner, and spent more time outside Seoul.
• Looking back, I wish I'd taken more time to learn about local history and music.

When I was planning my family's summer trip to Japan, a stop in South Korea wasn't originally part of the itinerary.

However, when I found a great deal on premium-economy tickets to Tokyo with a layover in Seoul, I decided to extend our stay in South Korea's capital and spend five days exploring the city.

My children and I ended up loving South Korea, but our trip probably would have been better if I'd avoided these five mistakes.

We should've sought out more hikes and planned experiences within nature.

Seoul is an energetic, bustling city. Before the trip, I had assumed we'd spend most of our time visiting urban attractions and learning more about the flashy local Gangnam Style.

However, the mountains and natural beauty in Seoul made a bigger impression on me than anything else in the city.

By sheer luck, I'd booked a stay at a hotel right by Namsan Park, a massive forest in the mountains inside city limits. My family took two long, unplanned hikes in the park — and they turned out to be some of the best parts of the trip.

Although I'm glad we stumbled upon this urban oasis, I wish I had been more intentional about planning to explore more natural attractions in and around Seoul during our visit.

Our itinerary didn't include enough trips and experiences outside Seoul.

During the trip, my family explored Seoul's ancient palaces and steeped ourselves in K-pop culture. We walked laps around Seoul's trendy Myeong-dong neighborhood, eating Korean street food, hunting for K-beauty finds.

We left Seoul twice for day trips to the Demilitarized Zone (DMZ) between North and South Korea and to visit K-drama filming locations.

Since South Korea wasn't our final destination, I thought five days would be enough to get a feel for the country.

It certainly felt like enough time to explore Seoul, and I loved my time in South Korea — but I left wishing I had more time to explore the country beyond its capital.

For example, I would've loved to visit the volcanic Jeju Island or the beaches and mountains in Busan.

Learning a bit more about local history and culture would've enriched the trip.

When I travel, I usually make it a point to learn more about the place I'm visiting since doing so always enriches my experiences.

However, once I landed in Seoul, I realized how little I really knew.

For example, I wish I'd taken more time to learn about the Japanese occupation of Korea and the Korean War. There are echoes of these events everywhere, and families in Korea remain divided between the North and South.

I also wish I'd become more familiar with popular local bands and listened to more K-pop before I landed. This music is a vital part of Korean culture, and ads with K-pop bands and signs wishing a K-pop star a happy birthday were all over Seoul during my visit.

It would've been cool to understand and appreciate these references … and maybe even sing along to some local hits.

It took us a little too long to embrace local convenience-store culture.

Convenience stores are ubiquitous in Seoul, and the ones we encountered were nothing like the ones back home, which often feel like a last resort for a grab-and-go bite.

Here, convenience stores are staples for a reason. I was impressed by the wide variety of affordable meals, snacks, and beverages on offer in these stores — and by the fact that many of them had seating areas.

By the end of my time in South Korea, I had grown accustomed to eating quick, low-cost, delicious (and sometimes even healthy) meals at a table inside a convenience store with my kids.

Doing something like this is nearly unheard of in the United States, and I wish I had embraced this quintessentially Korean habit much earlier. That way, we could've saved some money on food and efficiently tried even more local favorites.

Getting a transit card at the airport would've saved me money and headaches.

For most visitors, Seoul's extensive public-transportation system is the best way to get around the city. However, using it came with some unexpected challenges.

On my first full day in Seoul, I wanted to take the bus. However, I found that I had no way to pay since physical transit cards aren't sold at bus stops and buses don't accept cash or credit cards.

I got where I wanted to go by taking an Uber instead. Paying a few extra bucks wasn't the end of the world, but I love taking public transportation when I travel, and wish I'd been better prepared.

Even though I was exhausted when I landed in Seoul, I should've taken a few minutes to buy a transit card before leaving the airport to make using public transportation easier.

After I picked one up partway through my trip, getting around the city was easy and affordable. (The card I purchased is "Squid Game"-themed, which also makes it a cool souvenir.)

• Mathilde Turco was unhappy with the appearance of her skin at 34.
• She considered cosmetic surgery and decided on a mini-facelift.
• The New Yorker flew to Seoul for the procedure, which, she said, gave her the desired result.

This interview is based on a conversation with Mathilde Turco, 34, a content creator and sales professional for an electrical contracting company from Brooklyn, New York. It has been edited for length and clarity.

Four years ago, when I entered my 30s, I began to notice sagging on my face and a general loss of elasticity, making me appear older than I was.

It really bothered me, especially when I was making videos as a content creator or having on-camera meetings in my sales job.

I'd pull my skin taut when I looked in the mirror, and it became a habit. As a perfectionist, I became a little obsessed and started thinking of ways to make my skin look younger.

The surgeons recommended a mini-facelift

Initially, I tried treatments such as resurfacing lasers and fillers, but I was still very aware of fine lines, especially around my mouth.

In the summer and fall of 2025, I consulted some cosmetic surgeons in New York about facelift surgery, and none of them said I was too young for it.

Instead, they recommended a mini-facelift, which is far less invasive than the deep-plane one I originally thought I needed, to also tighten my jawline. This would have involved a deeper scar.

Still, I was on a tight budget, so I widened my search abroad. I had online consultations with clinics in Tunisia, Colombia, and my native France before deciding on a place in the Gangnam district of Seoul.

South Korea attracted my attention because its cosmetic surgery industry uses innovative, high-tech techniques. I liked the natural look of the results.

I told my fiancé about my plans, but didn't tell too many other friends or family. I thought they'd be scared or tell me to wait until I'm older, but it's a very personal decision.

I'm a grown woman who can make up my own mind. I didn't want to worry them for no reason.

My girlfriend and I flew to Seoul a week before the surgery on February 9, 2026, and stayed for a total of a month.

I needed painkillers

One surgeon performed the mini-facelift — including an endoscopic forehead lift — and another doctor did my breast implants at the same time. The operation lasted around seven hours.

I woke up with some discomfort, but it was manageable with painkillers. There was a minimal incision around the hairline, and it started healing pretty quickly.

I was very careful and only ventured outside when the medical team said it was OK. Once the swelling and bruising had receded, I was able to go sightseeing with my friend again.

Back in New York City, I've been taking things easy as I fully recover. My eyebrows are still high, but they're settling back into place as each day and week go by.

The surgeon told me it would probably take up to six months for all the sensations in your temple area to return.

It's boosted my confidence

I did this for myself, and it's obviously not about him, but my fiancé seems to have appreciated the results. He's pleased that I'm pleased.

I look at my reflection and am so glad I went ahead with the procedure. I don't see those smile lines as much. It's given me a lot more confidence.

Some people have said, "Oh, you don't look that much different," which is fine by me. I want it to look as natural and as subtle as possible.